So, let's say I like someone. Okay, I do. Or I'm interested. Whatever. I'm interested in someone and we know each other, but not enough for me to say I like him...does that make sense? I want to get to know him, but how can I say that without sounding like a creepy stalker? I hold strongly to that notion that if a guy wants to talk to you, he will. But what if he doesn't? Do I have to automatically give up on something happening between us? BECAUSE THAT SUCKS. Except probably nothing will happen between us. Especially if I don't talk to him. But even if I do, that most likely won't change a thing.
All I want is to either a) know without a shadow of a doubt if I'm ever going to get married so I don't have to worry about it anymore or b) cry. Do guys think about these things? Do they wonder and worry about whether or not they'll find someone? Or is it just us pathetic girls? And is it pathetic?
What I'm trying to ask....is it okay for a girl to pursue a boy? Or does it have to be other way around?
The situation (hehe) is stupid and ridiculous and pointless.
PS: Remember all that freaking out that happened before school? Yeah, completely not necessary. At all.
2 comments:
Okay, Mandy, listen up. Firstly, It's alright for a girl to approach a guy and get to know him but if he very obviously isn't into her, then she just needs to let it be what it is. Now, you have no idea if this is the case, so I suggest that you channel some bravery and talk to him. From what I know, he seems like a total catch and I don't see anything wrong with getting to know him. If it doesn't work out, we can always watch The Holiday and A Walk to Remember and cry together.
Secondly, I'm sure guys sometimes wonder if the girl he's with or not with is the girl he is meant to be with. (That made sense, right?) They most likely don't worry about it as much as we do, or if they do they don't show it.
Thirdly, pathetic is definitely not the appropriate adjective for this situation, no matter how "stupid and ridiculous and pointless" it may be.
Lastly, I love you. That is all.
Just remember when you ask a guy out if you are awkward like I am he may not know that it is a date and even afterward you are stick in limbo. *Hugs
Us girls need to stick together.
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